Friday, April 6, 2012

True Love or True betrayal??

Well I have so many things to write about, so I am all over the place with my ideas for my blog haha but I have lots of different experiences to share, have opinions on and things I want to learn more of from others.  So I honestly don't watch too much tv; for many reasons but mainly because I have a husband and two boys, yep that should sum it right up.  I watched tv tonight and was adhered to the show that was on.  I was watching 20/20 and the story was about the Texas Love Triangle.  I feel horrible for the wife and victim of whom was shot at three times and had four attempts of murder against her in a matter of three months.  Yvonne Stern is a true warrior, a victim of many things.  She has lived through so much and now is being publicly taken through the ringer of blogs hating on her and saying so many mean things about her that she "is weak", "what a moron to take her husband back", "she is so stupid", "dumb".  So I am taking it in the other direction and trying to be positive.  Her husband was and I am assuming still is an attorney and was having an affair with a psychotic mistress for many years.  The mistress is the one who is serving her sentence for hiring four different hit men to kill or shall we say attempt to kill.  The men got paid $40 for gas money to her home, the other a used car and the other who actually shot Mrs. Stern in the stomach and was presumed dead in her SUV got $15,000 for the job.  Wow was it really worth it guys???  Really??  I bet with the high gas prices you didn't even get a full tank of gas huh??  Geesh.  Mrs. Stern spent 8 days in the hospital for her injuries from the non-fatal bullet that went through her spleen, liver and colon and landed in her hip.  The ironic thing to me is while recovering in the hospital she watched "Fatal Attraction

This is what she claims her and her husband are victims in this love triangle, a fatal attraction.  Once she recovered she went to their Aspen home and filed for divorce.  He talked her into going back to him and giving him a second chance.  She decided after over twenty years of marriage, two children and intensive couples counseling that she would in fact give him a second chance and now the public are disagreeing with her.  The other woman; Michelle Gaiser who is serving her time in prison right now has claimed that Jeffrey Stern; the husband was the mastermind behind his wife's attempted murder and had plotted against her the whole time.  Others of whom are siding for Michelle are saying she was brainwashed by Jeffrey and he is due to go on trial later this month. http://abcnews.go.com/2020/

There are obviously so many mixed reviews and who really knows the whole truth in any situation, right?!  This is not her fault and she is still in love with her husband and didn't even realize there were any problems in the marriage, he was home every night, a good dad, an involved husband, father and community member. So how was she was supposed to know of the infidelity of her husband?  She isn't in the wrong so I wish people would stop belittling her for God's sake.  She is trying to be the good person and forgive just like God wants us to do.  It would be one thing if he did something to her kids or other kids but an affair?!!  Their marriage is stronger than ever according to her and this is the true meaning of love.  Marriage is hard in general and oh boy I could write plenty of posts on that but I hope for her sake and the sake of her children that he is indeed innocent and that she can live her life normally away from the negative people.  I mean after all it is her life and I wish her nothing but the best.  She has plenty of money but seems pretty down to earth and I think realizes money truly can't buy you everything and she has learned internal strength and power from our above healer.  

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