Thursday, April 12, 2012

Garage Sale Thursday



Well yesterday I was sick all day....so much so that I couldn't even drive my kids to school :(.  I wish I had a friend or family member of whom I could rely on to assist in getting my kids to school but since I can't and my stinking fibro got the best of me it was a Wednesday hiatus for the three of us....lol.  Soo that brings me to today which in my area and I am assuming most other areas and regions it is the start of garage sale weekend!!!!  Spring is here, the temperatures are increasing, the grass is green, the tulips are out and looking oh so beautiful and the brightly colored signs are at the nearby street corners with my two favorite words written on them that called out my name; "GARAGE SALE"!!!!  So I dropped my youngest off and since I wasn't planning on going anywhere else afterwards but home I went to two garage sales instead; of course with no bra on....isn't that how it always works???!!!  haha  Well hey at least I brushed my teeth before I set out on my morning journey but without a bra....I mean who likes wearing bras anyway????  haha


So I bought a few good deals today, mostly for my friend of whom just had a baby.  I can't resist looking and buying baby clothes, toys, books; part of me, well about 75% of me would love to have another baby and the only thing technically stopping me is my bank account and oh a few medical issues.....lol.  Anyway the deal of the day for me was a distressed glider swing for $15.00!!!!!  It was painted white and the paint is chipping a bit sooo that should be easy peasy to bring it back to life and give it an awesome face lift and some love.  Here is the style of what it looks like but I will have more pictures as soon as I can pick it up since I had the small car when I bought it and have to go back tomorrow to pick it up from the seller and hopefully find someone awesome of who just might have a truck that can haul my beautiful treasure back home, especially since it is literally like three miles away..... hehe.

Sooo I got my house clean, did two loads of laundry, scored some great garage sale deals, fought with  insurance companies just to get my new member id information for our prescription coverage, grocery shopped, made pot roast, picked up kids from school, picked up husband from work and coached my youth soccer team for our one hour practice soooo I would say not a bad Thursday....well let's see what Garage sale Friday will bring me!!!

What are some of the best garage sale finds that have put a smile on your face??  You have been proud of???  Had a really good before and after face lift???  I can't wait til I post pics of the afterglow and of a new craft I am doing tomorrow....woo hoo!!!

Jennifer
xoxo

Monday, April 9, 2012

The First Monday after Spring Break equals Nightmare

Sooooo spring break is such a wonderful time of year for most people and for a huge majority in my little area along the lakeshore of Saint Joe, Michigan which in case you didn't know would be Lake Michigan, which is one of five great lakes....ok, ok back to the point.  So the huge majority would be the higher paid salary folks that can actually afford to take to take a family vacation out of state...oh like Cozumel, Florida or the East Coast but for me I stay and do my retreating catching up on some sleep.  I am not complaining about the much needed sleep and the wonderful few mornings of sleeping in.  I get to enjoy that on the breaks now that I am a true stay at home mom, wife, house maid, taxi driver, soccer coach, self-employed volunteer and many other titles of far too little recognition thanks to my wonderful Multiple Sclerosis, Fibromyalgia, Spondylolisthesis, interstitial cystitis and mitral valve prolapse.  All are sooo much fun…haha <sarcasm>.  I still, however, try my best to remain positive and to fulfill my purpose in life but I am not quite sure as of yet what that purpose really is so I just take one day at a time and do my very best to deal with the pain.  I have good pain days and bad pain days but one thing you can’t take away from yet anyway is my ability to coach youth soccer!


Soo one week with the kids and it wasn't too bad.  I had some fun hanging out with my boys and I was able to take them and a friend of theirs to a movie and I went to the next theater and watched a movie by myself....haha  I actually enjoyed being there by myself and I believe this was the first time I ever sat alone in a movie theater and it was quite nice.  I didn't have to share the popcorn, nachos or anything else and I had the whole row to myself, how nice is that???!!!  Pretty awesome if you ask me haha.  So they spent a few hours abiding for my attention over the week so that was nice but the rest of it was spent on me driving them somewhere.  I was hoping to color Easter eggs with them but apparently they are too old for that....:(  that was sad and I suppose I could have been some crazy Martha Stewart obsessed, OCD mother who made them participate but I thought why not so I tried doing Easter eggs by myself tie dying them with silk ties.....eh is all I can say about that....lol.


Soo it is Monday morning of a new week at school and for my kids they now have 38 actual school days til summer break and then the chaos begins.....eek!!!!  I was very proud of my high schooler son.  When I got up to take my husband to work at 6:42 am, he was already in the shower....woo hoo, yippee, it is a great day!!!  Sooo I tried waking my 11 year old up and of course a no go.  So I came back from taking my husband to work and once again tried multiple times to wake him and a no go.  I then got the spray bottle of water and began to spray him which of course he slowly like a slow motion picture got out of his bed.  He grumbled and moaned and I thought oh dear Lord.  Well I am not dealing with just a grumpy pre-teen here but a child with ADHD and mood disorder soooo it is just another day in the war zone and I have to put my fake, happy face on to hopefully block the deep seeded frustration I am having towards him at this very moment.


Sooo to make a very long story short, the older one got mad at the younger one because he didn't want to get ready hence making the older one late for school (AGAIN) and the younger one of course is throwing things and yelling and he finally got  into the car and off we went to their specific school locations.  As I dropped my youngest one off I gave him a kiss and told him to have a great day.  He seemed ok at that point and all I can do is cross my fingers for a good day and for me to not get any phone calls from the principal.  He was excited because he was after two months able to return to the "regular population".  This meant he was able to eat breakfast and lunch with his friends and go to morning and afternoon recess but he would still have to do recess with the principal.  He has continued to get into so much trouble at school that this was our only justification with him but he had been doing well this past month and has earned that privilege back so I reminded him to focus, be good and not lose his good privilege.  I got an email two hours later stating that he so far was doing very well, wanting to do work, being nice, etc.....the tears began to roll down my face with happiness and elation that my troubled son is having a good first day from break, now if he can just have 38 great days ahead we will be happier than a kid at the candy store.....Yahoo!!!!


Sooo as most Mondays go, they start off sort of crummy but it got wrapped up quite well and I am so thankful for that.


Anyone else have some grumpy people to deal with after Spring Break?  ie: Kids??




Sunday, April 8, 2012

Happy Easter!!!

Well it is now in the evening here in Michigan so my Easter day is just about concluded.  Too many words that could add to the summary....haha....hmmm first off, praise God!!  Thank you Jesus for all you have done!  Now the next few words of course will be family, food and fun but c'mon all mother's and busy women, another main word is: TIRED!!!  haha  After playing Easter bunny to the kids and of course forgetting a few things and having to race to Meijer at 7:30 in the morning, running into the morning rush there which of course is chaotic....yep, less than thrilling.  My mom came for a visit and so by the time I got back to my house I was surprised by her appearance on my couch and then I began to bake these yummy cupcakes I found last month that I made for my daughter's birthday.  They are Shirley Temple Cupcakes and are oh sooo yummy!  There are many blogs that have slightly different recipes but this is the one I will give the credit to since this is the blog I initially found the recipe from and have used since.  http://thewhimsicalcupcake.wordpress.com/2012/03/06/shirley-temple-cupcakes/

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So here is my first words of advice on these delightful cupcakes.....If you don't have at least two hours to spare in the kitchen then you just might want to save these for another day...hehe.  I made the first batch last month and it gave me 12 just like the recipe said, which to me is sooo amazing in of itself.  Today I made a double batch which I for some reason never seem to like to double the ingredients in the same bowl, so I use separate bowls which takes even more time....LOL.  The buttercream frosting I was able to make a "double" batch in the same bowl and because I ran out of maraschino cherry juice and the frosting was a little too thick for me I added some milk to it and it came out a creamy, perfect confection.  I am not opposed totally of using a box cake mix but to me since I have been baking for many years and have learned on my own since I wasn't able to inherent that from my mom or grandma since they weren't too interested in the land of baking haha.....anyway back to my point.  To me there is just this really good, warm, fuzzy feeling I get when I can make a cake or cupcake completely from scratch to finish.  The one I can't wait to learn one day is how to properly decorate my delightful desserts.....one day I will take the proper training but until then I will just keep smearing my load of frosting on with my pampered chef decorator :) that I have had for about eight years now and it hasn't failed me yet.

Soooo give these yummy cupcakes a try!!!!  I hope everyone had a great Easter celebration!!!


Shirley Temple Cupcakes
Yields 12 cupcakes
Ingredients:
For the cupcakes:
1 and 1/2 cups (6 oz) plus 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 cup (200g) granulated sugar
2 large eggs, at room temperature
1/2 cup Cherry 7-Up, at room temperature*
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon almond extract
1 tablespoon maraschino cherry juice
Red food coloring
To make the cupcakes: Preheat the oven to 350 degrees, and prepare a cupcake pan with your desired paper liners, set aside.
In a medium bowl, whisk together 1 and 1/2 cups of flour, baking powder, and salt. Set aside.
In the bowl of your stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment (or in a large bowl with a hand mixer), add the butter and sugar and beat on medium-high speed until creamy, about 2-3 minutes.
Add the eggs, one at a time, mixing well after each addition. (My mixture looked satiny at this point.)
Reduce the mixer speed to low, and alternate adding the flour mixture and the Cherry 7-Up, beginning and ending with the flour, mixing well and scraping down the sides of the bowl as necessary. Add the vanilla and almond extracts, mixing well. (My mixture actually looked a bit curdled but they baked up great!)
Place about 3/4 cup of the cupcake batter in a separate small bowl and add the remaining 1 tablespoon of flour, maraschino cherry juice, and red food coloring (to your desired tint).
Evenly distribute the red cupcake batter among your prepared liners, about 1-2 teaspoons per liner, gently smoothing out the batter.
Once the red batter is in place, evenly distribute the remaining cupcake batter among the cupcake liners, making sure not to mix the two batters. Be sure to cover the red batter completely so it doesn’t bake up the sides and to the top.
Bake for 15-20 minutes, or until a cake tester inserted in the middle comes out with a few moist crumbs attached (do not overbake). Let cool completely on a wire rack before frosting.
For the Buttercream frosting:
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, at room temperature
Pinch salt
2 and 1/2 cups powdered sugar
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/4 teaspoon almond extract
1 teaspoon fresh lemon juice
1 tablespoon maraschino cherry juice
For garnish:
12 maraschino cherries with stems
To make the Buttercream Frosting: In the bowl cream the butter until light and fluffy, about 2-3 minutes.
Add the pinch of salt, powdered sugar, vanilla and almond extracts, lemon juice, and maraschino cherry juice into the bowl. On low speed, incorporate the ingredients until the powdered sugar is mixed in. Increase the speed to medium and beat for about 2-3 minutes. If you like your frosting thicker, add more powdered sugar (small amounts at a time) and if you like it thinner add a bit more cherry juice or add a little milk if it is too thick and you run out of cherry juice.
Pipe as desired onto your cooled cupcakes and garnish with a maraschino cherry. Enjoy!


Have fun with life and have fun with baking!!!


Friday, April 6, 2012

Life in the works


 You are a warrior, a survivor and you will live on to create a positive legacy and defeat the brutality of the enemy!
-J.Schneider

Hey this is my new quote that describes me on so many levels.  I have been through domestic violence, a single mother, fighting MS, everyday pain like with my fibromyalgia and spine disease and I will live on to conquer my demons, my heart aches, my woes, my negative bank accounts, my bill collectors, my horrible credit.  Yep all those things point to not so good feelings but I will conquer it all one baby step at a time.  I will get through it all one smile at a time and one craft, garage sale or goodwill at a time!!!  Bring it on Life!!



I love to sing!
I love to laugh!
I want to learn to love better!

This is how I felt after having Lapband surgery!!!
This is me!!!!  I love Goodwill, second hand stores, Salvation Army, Garage sales, dollar stores, simple, frugal, fresh, good.

True Love or True betrayal??

Well I have so many things to write about, so I am all over the place with my ideas for my blog haha but I have lots of different experiences to share, have opinions on and things I want to learn more of from others.  So I honestly don't watch too much tv; for many reasons but mainly because I have a husband and two boys, yep that should sum it right up.  I watched tv tonight and was adhered to the show that was on.  I was watching 20/20 and the story was about the Texas Love Triangle.  I feel horrible for the wife and victim of whom was shot at three times and had four attempts of murder against her in a matter of three months.  Yvonne Stern is a true warrior, a victim of many things.  She has lived through so much and now is being publicly taken through the ringer of blogs hating on her and saying so many mean things about her that she "is weak", "what a moron to take her husband back", "she is so stupid", "dumb".  So I am taking it in the other direction and trying to be positive.  Her husband was and I am assuming still is an attorney and was having an affair with a psychotic mistress for many years.  The mistress is the one who is serving her sentence for hiring four different hit men to kill or shall we say attempt to kill.  The men got paid $40 for gas money to her home, the other a used car and the other who actually shot Mrs. Stern in the stomach and was presumed dead in her SUV got $15,000 for the job.  Wow was it really worth it guys???  Really??  I bet with the high gas prices you didn't even get a full tank of gas huh??  Geesh.  Mrs. Stern spent 8 days in the hospital for her injuries from the non-fatal bullet that went through her spleen, liver and colon and landed in her hip.  The ironic thing to me is while recovering in the hospital she watched "Fatal Attraction

This is what she claims her and her husband are victims in this love triangle, a fatal attraction.  Once she recovered she went to their Aspen home and filed for divorce.  He talked her into going back to him and giving him a second chance.  She decided after over twenty years of marriage, two children and intensive couples counseling that she would in fact give him a second chance and now the public are disagreeing with her.  The other woman; Michelle Gaiser who is serving her time in prison right now has claimed that Jeffrey Stern; the husband was the mastermind behind his wife's attempted murder and had plotted against her the whole time.  Others of whom are siding for Michelle are saying she was brainwashed by Jeffrey and he is due to go on trial later this month. http://abcnews.go.com/2020/

There are obviously so many mixed reviews and who really knows the whole truth in any situation, right?!  This is not her fault and she is still in love with her husband and didn't even realize there were any problems in the marriage, he was home every night, a good dad, an involved husband, father and community member. So how was she was supposed to know of the infidelity of her husband?  She isn't in the wrong so I wish people would stop belittling her for God's sake.  She is trying to be the good person and forgive just like God wants us to do.  It would be one thing if he did something to her kids or other kids but an affair?!!  Their marriage is stronger than ever according to her and this is the true meaning of love.  Marriage is hard in general and oh boy I could write plenty of posts on that but I hope for her sake and the sake of her children that he is indeed innocent and that she can live her life normally away from the negative people.  I mean after all it is her life and I wish her nothing but the best.  She has plenty of money but seems pretty down to earth and I think realizes money truly can't buy you everything and she has learned internal strength and power from our above healer.  

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream

Ok so we all have our favorite ice cream, right??!!!  I think I could be an ice cream critic.  Unfortunately for me I am an ice cream addict or ice creamaholic hahah but for the lovely ice cream makers and marketers of the world it is their lucky day.  I honestly probably go through a gallon of ice cream in about 8 days.  I have tried so many and because I am cheap and frugal I try to stick with what is on sale but that never seems to pay out unless it is my all time favorite which is:  Edy's Mint Chocolate Chip slow churned.  http://edys.com/main/index.asp?b=105

I wish I could continue to explore the lighter side but every time I do, it ends up an epic failed attempt to be calorie conscious Yuck!!  Well Yuck when it comes to ice cream anyway.  Sooo here is a question:  
         Q: Why does it seem like ice cream tastes soooo much better when you go to the ice cream parlor?  I live in Saint Joseph, Michigan near the beautiful, majestic Lake Michigan with its quaint shops, cozy dining and yummy ice cream shops it is an awesome tourist destination.  There are three very yummy ice cream shops that appeal to so many.  I always like the ones that are family owned; those are my favorite. So here is my list for now:  


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This is also located on the beautiful and majestic Mackinac Island way at the top Michigan and if you haven't had the pleasure of traveling here, you should put it on your bucket list indeed!
3)  Baskin Robbins http://www.baskinrobbins.com/ this isn't right near the lake but still in Saint Joe and still oh so yummy, especially since they share it with Dunkin Donuts; you can't go wrong there. :)
Did you know this???
Baskin Robbins will donate a meal to the "Feeding America" for every iced cappy blast purchased in April and every Wednesday Mini Iced Cappy Blasts are only .99 cents 


I like hard ice cream over soft serve but dont mind having my Dairy Queen blizzard now and then but that is a question I am going to have to ponder, search and find the answer to.  I will be on an ice cream mission now....haha.  They come in these huge circular mega gallon tubs, sooo maybe it contains some special ingredient or more sugar??!!!  Hmmmmm, very interesting.  Anyway I am sitting here with my yummy bowl of ice cream at 1:00 am and I also add my other favorite to it which is also another hint of why I am not helping my weight loss routine but oh so good and this is Nestle mini morsels.  

Oh heaven, I say what a versatile, yummy, chocolate morsel of goodness!!  I top this on my ice cream, my yummy chocolate chip cookies, pies, shakes....soooo are you hungry yet??!!  hehe  

What is your favorite ice cream flavor and brand????

Favorite Quotes

WHAT IS LIFE?
Life is an Adventure ... Dare it
Life is a Beauty ... Praise it
Life is a Challenge ... Meet it
Life is a Duty ... Perform it
Life is a Love ... Enjoy it
Life is a Tragedy ... Face it
Life is a Struggle ... Fight it
Life is a Promise ... Fulfill it
Life is a Game ... Play it
Life is a Gift ... Accept it
Life is a Journey ... Complete it
Life is a Mystery ... Unfold it
Life is a Goal ... Achieve it
Life is an Opportunity ... Take it
Life is a Puzzle ... Solve it
Life is a Song ... Sing it
Life is a Sorrow ... Overcome it
Life is a Spirit ... Realize it
 
  -Anon


Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.
   -Anon


There are four things every person has more of than they know; sins, debt, years, and foes. 
   -Anon


(well this must have been written for me!!!!  hahaha  well at least the sins and debt part)


I do not want to get to the end of my life and find that I just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. 
 -Diane Ackerman, "quoted in Newsweek", September 22, 1986
(ANOTHER TRUTH OF ME)


Be determined to handle any challenge in a way that will make you grow. 
  -Les Brown

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest! If you must-but never quit.
Life is queer, with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might of won if he'd stuck it out;
Stick to your task, though the pace seems slows-
You may succeed with one more blow.

Success is failure turned inside out-
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt-
And you may never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit-
It's when things seem worse that YOU MUSN'T QUIT.
 

  -Anon


These are just a few of many of my favorite quotes that we should try to live by and after sooo many downhill battles I am trying to find the uphill climb soooo I look at the quotes and pray to get me back on track.  Living with daily pain and other financial woes puts your mind in a tailspin that is for sure.  I hope I can touch just one person in my experiences and the wisdom I have to share.  I am an open book, hence writing a blog haha.  Ask me a question and you shall receive an answer.


God is good and we are not always worthy to receive his blessings.